Parenting is an awesome responsibility that involves a huge amount of work.
It isn’t easy to be a great parent!
I’ve had the privilege of speaking to and working with thousands of students and parents. Through these interactions, I’ve come to realize that despite their good intentions, parents often do things that confuse, annoy, anger or frustrate their children.
I’ve noticed the many mistakes that parents make in trying to raise happy and successful children.
I’ve also observed what winning parents do differently.
Based on these observations, I’ve come up with a list of 10 questions that all successful parents ask themselves.
(Just to be clear, I’m writing this post from a child and a student’s perspective. Also, to avoid repeatedly writing “he or she,” I’ll assume that the child I refer to is a girl.)
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1. Do I want what’s good for my child or what’s best?
(This point is inspired by this excellent article.)
It’s natural for parents to advise their children to pursue the safe, predictable and practical route.
Parents do this because they don’t want their children to experience uncertainty or discomfort.
This is the good path.
But is it the best path?
In most cases, no. The best path is usually the one that’s full of challenges, obstacles and disappointments.
It might even be full of the “f” word: failure.
Winning parents distinguish between “good” and “best,” and continually encourage their children to choose “best.”
