Do you want to be a successful student?
Or if you’re a parent, do you want that for your children?
There’s no way to avoid the hard work that’s involved.
But becoming a successful student isn’t only about doing more. It’s also about saying the right things.
Here’s why.
By being intentional about the things you say to yourself and others, you’ll cultivate a success mindset. Only then will you find the intrinsic motivation to take consistent action.
And that’s what leads to success.
So, to be a successful student, say these 10 things every day:
1. “My goal is progress, not perfection.”
Nobody’s perfect.
It’s impossible to get perfect grades, to have the perfect body, or to have the perfect social life. If your goal is perfection, you’ll become disappointed and disillusioned.
I’ve worked with students who are perfectionists. Several of them cut their wrists, suffer from eating disorders, or have suicidal thoughts.
That’s scary, I know.
Not all perfectionists have such serious psychological problems, but perfectionism is dangerous. In addition, perfectionists often experience performance anxiety, which affects their grades.
The better alternative is to focus on progress, not perfection. Progress is about developing and improving, just a little bit each day.
To become a successful student, concentrate on the process and try to forget about the outcome. As the research shows, you’ll actually achieve a better outcome using this strategy. [Read more…]